Jill Biden says she, president settle arguments by 'fexting'

WASHINGTON (AP) — When President Joe Biden and first lady Jill Biden disagree, they don’t hash it out in front of other people. Instead, she says, they argue by text — “fexting” as they call it.

Jill Biden also told Harper’s Bazaar magazine in an interview that her divorce from her first husband taught her to be independent and that she has drilled that lesson into her daughter and granddaughters.

She says she could soon be sharing White House living quarters with a teenage granddaughter.

When Joe Biden was vice president, the couple decided to settle disagreements by text to avoid fighting in the presence of their Secret Service agents — and dubbed it fexting.

After she recently texted him in a fit of pique, he told her, “‘You realize that’s going to go down in history. There will be a record of that,’” she said. Presidential communications are preserved for the historical record. She told her interviewer, “I won’t tell you what I called him that time.”

The first lady appears on the cover of the publication’s June-July issue, available on newsstands June 7. Harper’s Bazaar said it’s the first time in its 155-year history that a U.S. first lady has been so prominently featured.

Jill Biden was 18 when she married her first husband. But by her mid-20s, she was divorced, alone and on her own for the first time in her life. The breakup dealt her an emotional blow as she had idolized her parents’ union and thought she’d have a marriage as long-lasting as theirs.

She finished college and became a teacher.

“I knew I would never, ever put myself in that position again, where I didn’t feel like I had the finances to be on my own, that I had to get the money through a divorce settlement,” she said.

“I drummed that into (my daughter), Ashley, ‘Be independent, be independent.’ And my granddaughters,” she said. “You have to be able to stand on your own two feet.”

Jill Biden met then-Sen. Joe Biden in 1975, and they were married two years later.

She kept teaching throughout his rise in national politics, eventually becoming the first first lady to hold a paying job outside the White House. She fits her responsibilities as first lady around her twice-a-week teaching schedule at Northern Virginia Community College.

Granddaughter Naomi is engaged to be married and is planning a White House wedding reception in November. Another granddaughter recently told the first lady that she landed an internship in Washington and would like to move into the executive mansion for the summer.

“I’m going to be raising a teenager?” Jill Biden exclaimed.

Deadly Memorial Day Holiday weekend on northeast Oklahoma's waters

GRAND LAKE – Two water-related accidents over the Memorial Holiday weekend prompted Grand River Dam Authority to remind lake lovers about water safety.

“Each holiday weekend on the lake is different and, unfortunately, accidents do happen sometimes,” said Justin Alberty, GRDA spokesman.

Jose James-Flores, 42, of Tyler, Texas drowned Saturday in Flint Creek, which is located in southern Delaware County.

The elder James-Flores jumped into the waters to rescue his son, who jumped from the top of Flint Creek Dam.  Both were underwater for five to seven minutes before being rescued by other citizens in the area. The son was revived at the scene and the father was taken to the Siloam Springs Hospital where he was later pronounced dead.

Troy Young, 48, Bixby, was last seen leaving Cedar Port Marina in a 24-foot Blue Yellowfin boat at approximately 10:30 p.m. on Friday. Young’s boat was recovered near the entrance of Ketchum Cove, approximately 1.5 miles from Cedar Port on Saturday.

GRDA police continue to search for Young, Alberty said on Monday.

With the large crowds that visit the waters on a holiday weekend or even just a normal summer weekend, the overwhelming majority of visitors do experience a safe, memorable outing, he said.

GRDA’s goal is to continue to share boating safety messages and promote those safe outings, while also being present to assist when an accident happens, Alberty said.

GRDA has listed the following “Dos and Don’ts” guidelines for boating.  

  • Do wear a life jacket. For those floating the river, children 13 years of age and under are required to always wear a life jacket. On the lake, children 12 years of age and younger are required to wear a life jacket on vessels under 26 feet long. However, GRDA encourages all ages to always wear a life jacket.
  • Don’t drink and boat. Alcohol use continues to be the single leading factor contributing to boating accidents.
  • Do keep a good lookout while underway.
  • Do shut engines off when people are in the water near your boat.
  • Do observe the nautical “rules of the road.”
  • Do check the weather forecast before getting underway.
  • Do keep a balanced load.
  • Don’t overload the boat.
  • Don’t ride on the gunwale, bow, seatbacks, or any place that is not designated for sitting.
  • Don’t swim or boat alone. Stay within sight of companions.
  • For those floating the river, do let the commercial float operator know if anyone in the party is a first-time or novice floater(s).
  • Don’t dive into the river from bridges, bluffs, stream banks, and trees.
  • Do respect the weather and the water. If tired while floating, take a break on the bank or on a gravel bar to rest.

For more information about the GRDA call 918.256.0911. Boaters who need assistance from a boat are encouraged to call 911, or if no cell phone is available, radio the GRDA Police on Marine Band 16.

Two former Northeast Oklahoma pastors on Southern Baptist Convention’s sexual crimes report

NORTHEAST OKLAHOMA — Two former Baptist pastors from Craig and Delaware counties are part of a report issued by the Southern Baptist Convention where church leaders are accused of sexual abuse.

One former pastor, Roy Edward Williams, of Vinita, plead guilty in U.S. District Court in Tulsa for sexually abusing five girls over a 16-year span, from 2002 to 2018.  He is waiting to be sentenced, online records show.

The other incident occurred in 2009.  Joshua Spires was arrested and charged in Delaware County District Court in Jay and sentenced to 10 years in prison within two months of his arrest.  

The 205-page report lists leaders accused and convicted of sexual-related crimes.

“This list is being made public for the first time as an initial, but important, step towards addressing the scourge of sexual abuse and implementing reform in the Convention,” according to a prepared statement released by the Southern Baptist Convention.

“Each entry in this list reminds us of the devastation and destruction brought about by sexual abuse. Our prayer is that the survivors of these heinous acts find hope and healing, and that churches will utilize this list proactively to protect and care for the most vulnerable among us.”

“It is our hope that releasing this list places a spotlight on truth and transparency. Southern Baptists have made it clear that transparency in the area of sex abuse should be the norm,” the statement continues.

Roy Williams

Williams, 63, of Vinita, plead guilty in April in U.S. District Court in Tulsa to five counts of coercion and enticement of a minor in Indian Country and possession of child pornography.

He is the former pastor at Bunker Hill Baptist Church.

The abuse spanned 16 years from 2002 to 2018.

Williams confessed to sexually abusing the five victims and taking sexually explicit pictures of the victims.

One of the victims was under 12 years old, according to the plea agreement.

Williams has not been sentenced, but according to the plea agreement he faces up to 30 years and a $250,000 fine.

Joshua Spires

Spires, 41, is a lifetime registered sex offender now living in Odessa, Texas.

He was a 28-year-old paster of the First Baptist Church in Jay when he was charged with 10 counts of lewd molestation involving a 15-year-old girl, according to court documents filed in August 2009. Less than two months later Spires plead guilty.

The married father began to tell the victim he loved her when she was in the seventh grade and he was her youth pastor.

The sexual contact assaults occurred “every Sunday” the victim was at church in Spires’ church office about an hour before services began. During some of the assaults, the victim’s father was helping prepare for services.

Spires told authorities he sent about 50 sexually explicit text messages to the victim.  His obsession with the victim escalated to making threats to harm her and her boyfriend.

“Spires stated that he had nothing since his wife, kids, and girlfriend all left him, and he didn’t like it” that the victim and her boyfriend were happy, the affidavit states.

Carthage Memorial Day ceremony continues decades old tradition

CARTHAGE, Mo. — A crowd gathered at park cemetery in Carthage Monday for a memorial service.

As our photographer Darin McCann discovered, this is a tradition that started decades ago to honor those who paid the ultimate sacrifice serving our country. A tradition organizers hope will continue for decades to come.

“Our purpose today is to recognize and honor those American who have lost their lives while wearing the uniform of our nation to preserve for us the right and the way of life that we cherish. Fifty years ago we had American servicemen and women sweltering in the jungles of Vietnam and we lost some of them,” said keynote speaker, Bren Flanigan.

“Well it started back more in the Vietnam era when the guys would come back they were kinda looked down upon so they would kinda communicate with each other using coins I’m not exactly sure if that started there but that’s when I started hearing about it. So if you walk up to this Memorial Day or any day you see a penny on the gravestone that’s just letting the family or loved ones know they visited here,” said Michael Juris with the Combat Veterans Motorcycle Association.

Though while we enjoy our daily pledges there are others who have endured and may still be enduring the agonies of pain deprivation and internment.

It’s a celebration that folks have gone on and made the ultimate sacrifice and that’s worthy for us to pay attention to and remember and I would say this is the largest crowd I’ve ever seen,” said Veteran, Richard Webster.

Most expensive homes for sale in Joplin, according to Stacker

JOPLIN, Mo. — Stacker compiled a list of the most expensive homes for sale in Joplin, Missouri from realtor.com.

Buying a home is an investment—and an increasingly expensive one. The median value of a home in the United States reached $363,300 in July 2021, according to the National Association of Realtors. The market grew competitive and the price of homeownership shot out of reach for many Americans—but not for those willing to shell out big money for the most expensive homes on the market.

The appetite for homes selling in the high six-figure range became voracious in 2020, and that trend continues into 2021, according to data from Redfin. Sales of such luxury homes increased41.6% year-over-year in the first quarter of 2021, growing significantly more than the smaller increase for more moderately priced homes.

To learn more about home values in Joplin, Missouri, Stacker analyzed data from realtor.com to compile a list of the most expensive homes for sale in the city. Homes are ranked by price with ties broken by price per square foot.

See the most expensive homes for sale in Joplin below:

#10. 5896 W Belle Center Rd, Joplin ($599,000)- 4 bedrooms; 2 bathrooms; 3,440 square feet; $174 per square foot (view listing on realtor.com)

#9. 137 Whispering Oaks Dr, Joplin ($653,846)- 4 bedrooms; 3 bathrooms; 2,855 square feet; $229 per square foot (view listing on realtor.com)

#8. 1386 Augusta Ln, Joplin ($719,900)- 5 bedrooms; 4 bathrooms; 4,500 square feet; $159 per square foot (view listing on realtor.com)

#7. 3418 Westberry Sq, Joplin ($730,000)- 4 bedrooms; 4 bathrooms; 4,900 square feet; $148 per square foot (view listing on realtor.com)

#6. 5245 Old Highway 71, Joplin ($735,000)- 3 bedrooms; 2 bathrooms; 3,065 square feet; $239 per square foot (view listing on realtor.com)

#5. 4 Emerald Dr, Joplin ($749,900)- 5 bedrooms; 7 bathrooms; 6,072 square feet; $123 per square foot (view listing on realtor.com)

#4. 3901 Red Fox Run, Joplin ($799,000)- 5 bedrooms; 6 bathrooms; 6,800 square feet; $117 per square foot (view listing on realtor.com)

#3. 3950 Red Fox Run, Joplin ($799,900)- 6 bedrooms; 4 bathrooms; 6,048 square feet; $132 per square foot (view listing on realtor.com)

#2. 3703 Red Fox Run, Joplin ($869,000)- 4 bedrooms; 6 bathrooms; 6,909 square feet; $125 per square foot (view listing on realtor.com)

#1. 5973 Falcon Ridge Ln, Joplin ($1,195,000)- 6 bedrooms; 6 bathrooms; 5,033 square feet; $237 per square foot (view listing on realtor.com)

11 deadly crashes, drowning, capsized boat in Missouri over Memorial Day weekend

MISSOURI – Eleven people died in crashes on Missouri highways and one person drowned over Memorial Day weekend, according to the Missouri State Highway Patrol.

Eleven people died in eleven crashes between Friday, May 27 and Monday, May 30. The victims ranged from 26 to 72 years old. Some of the crashes happened in counties just outside the St. Louis region, including St. Francois and Franklin counties.

In MSHP Troop C, which covers several counties in the St. Louis region, troopers also report 26 DWIs, nine drug arrests, and 80 injury crashes.

On the water, the Missouri State Highway Patrol responded to one drowning and a capsizing incident at the Lake of the Ozarks over the weekend. Troopers say Matthew Frazier, 40, of Neosho, drowned in the Elk River in McDonald County.

Frazier was said to have been retrieving a boat paddle until he was swept downstream. Exhausted after fighting the current, Frazier drowned just before 6:30. He was about half a mile south of Ginger Blue in McDonald County when he died. The McDonald County Assistant Coroner pronounced Frazier dead just after 10 the same day.

At the Lake of the Ozarks, two teens and an adult were hurt when a boat capsized. Investigators say all three were on a boat traveling two fast for the conditions, then the boat capsized. Two of the three victims were sent to the hospital for treatment.

A total of 49 crashes were investigated by MSHP over the weekend, with 15 of those involved injured, and two killed. Seventeen DWI arrests and nine drug arrests were also made in this period.

2nd body found after boat carrying 13 flips on Colorado lake

PUEBLO, Colo. (AP) — A boat flipped over in high winds on a Colorado lake over Memorial Day weekend, sending 13 people into the water and leaving two dead.

The eight children and three adults were on the large, flat boat at Lake Pueblo State Park when it capsized Sunday evening.

One adult — Jessica Prindle, 38, of the community of Pueblo West — died at the scene, the Pueblo County coroner’s office said.

A Colorado Parks and Wildlife rescue team found a second victim’s body in 107 feet (32 meters) of water Tuesday morning after an all-night search, the state agency said in a statement. The coroner plans to release the victim’s identity after next of kin are notified.

The 11 others in the boat survived and were treated for hyperthermia at hospitals, Colorado Parks and Wildlife said in a statement.

Park manager Joe Stadterman said the accident “underscores the importance of being extremely careful around the water.”

“If you are on or even near the water, we strongly urge you to wear a life jacket,” he said.

Lake Pueblo is about 40 miles (64 kilometers) south of Colorado Springs.

Census Bureau invites appeals of counts of dorms, prisons

Governments across the U.S. can start challenging the counts of prisons, dorms and nursing homes in their jurisdictions starting next week if they believe they are incorrect, the U.S. Census Bureau said Tuesday in mailings sent out to communities.

The bureau started sending out 40,000 notices to state, local and tribal governments across the U.S. to let them know they have through June 2023 to a request a review of their “group quarters” populations if they feel they were undercounted during the 2020 census.

People living in group quarters were among the hardest populations to count during the once-a-decade head count of U.S. residents that determines how many congressional seats each state gets as well as how $1.5 billion in federal spending is allocated each year. The pandemic hindered the Census Bureau’s ability to get information about such residents since students on campus were sent home when the pandemic began in the U.S. in March 2020, and prisons and nursing homes went into lockdowns against the spread of the coronavirus.

Because of the challenges posed by the pandemic to the group quarters count, the Census Bureau set up for the first time a one-time operation to review counts in dorms, nursing homes, prisons, military barracks, residential treatment centers and group homes.

Nothing can be done to change how congressional seats were divided up among the states, nor can the data used to redraw political districts be altered. However, any changes stemming from a review of the group quarters count may be used for future population estimates and surveys that help distribute federal resources.

The group quarters review is separate from another Census Bureau program allowing state, local and tribal governments to challenge housing counts or boundaries made from processing errors.

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AR hospital launches program to reduce opioid deaths by sending Narcan home with at-risk patients

SEARCY, Ark. (KNWA/KFTA) — According to a press release, a new program will seek to reduce overdose deaths in Arkansas by getting the overdose reversal drug naloxone into the homes of at-risk Arkansans.

The program, NaloxHome, will provide free naloxone — commonly known by the brand name Narcan — to participating Arkansas hospitals to dispense at discharge from the emergency room to patients or caregivers of patients who have experienced an overdose or are at risk for an overdose. The Arkansas Center for Health Improvement is partnering with the state drug director and the Arkansas Department of Human Services to administer the program.

Administrators and proponents of NaloxHome announced its launch in a news conference Tuesday at Unity Health-White County Medical Center in Searcy. Unity Health is the first hospital to launch the NaloxHome program.

“We know that naloxone saves lives,” said Arkansas Drug Director Kirk Lane. “Our goal is to get the drug into the homes of as many at-risk individuals as possible so fewer of our fellow Arkansans are lost to this epidemic.”

“This program is an important tool for our community in combating the opioid crisis,” said Dr. Roddy Lochala, Chief Medical Officer for Unity Health. “When we release someone from the Unity Health Emergency Department who has been treated for an overdose or is at risk for one, we have the ability to send the person home with a drug that can prevent a future overdose from being fatal. It is important to note that if Naloxone is administered at home it is only the first step in being treated for an overdose. An emergency room should be the immediate next step.”

Overdose deaths in the U.S. increased by nearly 30% in 2020, with more than 92,000 lives lost ― an unprecedented and catastrophic jump from about 71,000 deaths in 2019, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. Preliminary data from the CDC indicate that overdose deaths reached a new record high of more than 107,000 in 2021, an increase of nearly 15%.

According to ACHI, a major driver of the overdose epidemic is the increasing presence of the synthetic opioid fentanyl in the nation’s illicit drug supply. Fentanyl is often mixed with other drugs or manufactured to look like medications such as OxyContin, Xanax or Adderall; as a result, users often are unaware they are taking fentanyl, or in what strength.

Research shows that patients who have been treated in an emergency room for an overdose are at high risk for another overdose after discharge. According to the National Institute on Drug Abuse, a review of Massachusetts emergency department records and the state’s death records found that among patients treated in an emergency department for an overdose between July 2011 and September 2015, about 1 in 20 died within a year of discharge ― many of them within two days.

Funding for the program is provided by the federal Substance Abuse and Mental Health Administration through Arkansas DHS. More information is available on ACHI’s website at ACHI.net/NaloxHome.

ACHI is a nonpartisan, independent health policy center that serves as a catalyst for improving the health of all Arkansans through evidence-based research, public issue advocacy, and collaborative program development.

Joplin Superintendent of Wastewater Services passes away

JOPLIN, Mo. — The City of Joplin is announcing that Lyndell Edwards, Superintendent of Wastewater Services, has passed away.

Edwards passed on Friday, May 27th. He joined the the city of Joplin in 2008 and served 14 years in his position.

Prior to working at the City, he worked at Eagle Picher as an Environmental Engineer and later as the Wastewater Manager. Edwards held various other positions during his career. He enjoyed hunting, bowling, golf, and was an avid reader.

He is survived by his wife Elaine, his son, Justin Edwards of Webb City; his father Marlin Edwards and his sister Quilla Edwards, both of Olton, TX; two grandsons – Keegan Lumley and his wife Erika of Wilmington, NC and Logan Edwards of Webb City; and a host of family and friends. He is preceded in death by his mother and his daughter-in-law Michelle (Lumley) Edwards.

Funeral services will be held at 2 p.m. Tuesday, May 31, 2022 at the Purcell Baptist Church in Purcell, MO. The family will receive friends during a time of visitation immediately following the service at the church.